Signs You Are a Side Chick

All The Surefire Signs You’re Just His Side Chick And Nothing More

“if you start a relationship being the other woman, you will never be the only woman.” Bell Kariuki on Relationships

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​Sure Signs that you are a side chick and not his girlfriend.

By Bell Kariuki (InstagramTwitter

Within the past few years, guys having a “side chick” has reached an all time high. There are songs, movies, and even books about being the other woman, which is pretty messed up.

You’d think men would “keep it 100” and tell you if they weren’t ready to be in a relationship with only one person (or that he’s actually already with someone when you meet).

 Instead, they’ve gotten a lot more clever and underhanded in their tactics and they know how to keep their girlfriends and their side pieces separate.

Also, being a side chick is no longer an embarrassment to some women, which gives us men more reason to have one. 

Here are a few signs that he’s actually in a relationship with someone else.

1. He buys you sh*t to keep you happy.

Hush gifts are things he buys for you when you start talking about serious sh*t, like moving in together, committing, or spending time with his family, and an argument sparks. Because he wants to keep you as his side chick, he finds your material weakness and plays on that to stray you away from the serious topics and also to keep youaround.

2. He seems completely disconnected when you get emotional with him.

When women date, they anticipate the time in their relationships when they fall for the guy and can tell him how they feel. However, if you open up to your man and tell him how you feel repeatedly and he doesn’t reciprocate and/or tries to downplay the entire topic, this could be a sign that his heart lies elsewhere.

3. You’re never invited to stay the night after sex.

As couples get more comfortable with each other, they tend to stay over at one another’s place after sex. However, if he leaves your apartment in the middle of the night, or makes sure you never stay over at his place, this is a definite red flag. Also, keep in mind, if he has a family or“main chick”, staying until dawn will never be an option.
4. He refuses to show affection in public.

PDA (Public Display of Affection) should never be an issue in any relationship, so long as it’s within reason. But if you go to grab his hand and he pulls his away, or you never kiss or get too close when you’re out together, this could be a sign that you’re a side chick. This also gives him room to lie to his “main chick” about who you are if you two happen to be seen.
5. He dodges every photo opportunity.

Everyone is on Facebook and Instagram posting their food, kids, and significant others. Snapchat and Whatsapp make every day a motion picture production. So if you notice that your guy is dodging selfies like bullets whenever you tilt your phone to take a picture,you may be a side chick.

6. You have a “secret spot” that he tries to play off as romantic.

Every couple has a favorite spot to eat or hang out. However, if he choses to always take you miles outside of the city or to venues with very little traffic, it’s a possibility he’s trying to be discreet about being out with you, without letting you know.
Bonus

He always wants to meet late at night.

If you only meet after dark or after reasonable date hours, such as 11pm or later, chances are he has another life that he leads – the hours prior to those latenight “booty call” hours.
He prefers to stay in when you’re together.

If your guy always strays away from going out or always wants to just come to your place to hang out, this is a major side chick indicator. There’s a difference between a guy being a homebody and trying to be sneaky with your relationship. Every couple has dinner at restaurants or goes on movie dates from time to time.
You’re never invited to family gatherings. 

If you have never met a guy’s parents and children or haven’t been to any events that include his friends, this is another side chick indicator.

He has to go suddenly whenever you’re on the phone.

When you speak to your guy on the phone, if he speaks to you in a very formal tone without even addressing you by name more often than not, that’s a definite sign you are a side chick. If he’s always gotta go suddenly or straight up hangs up on you out of nowhere from time to time, that’s probably because his actual girlfriend got home.

The Gay Cult (Why I don’t support LGBT) 

LGBT: The New Bullies on the Block
A sick, twisted generation. So sad what this World has become.

Gay groups use mob intimidation and passive aggression to force capitulation.

Exposing the gay Agenda, Integrity’s scared of the in-your-face methods by Bell Kariuki

By Bell Kariuki (InstagramTwitter

What comes first into your mind when someone suggests that homosexuality is wrong in 2017? “oh he’s primitive” “people are still religious?” “hypocrisy” “we are all sinners” or some will be compassionate enough to say “we understand, some people are closed minded, and you can’t blame them” lol yeah right. Typical bullying tactics.

Well, here’s my bold approach, I used to be naive too. I assumed that everyone is fair and driven by justice, and the interests of other people, fighting for human rights and the “greater good” until I studied  political science and the laws of human nature. Adults and Human beings in general are driven by their own interests and that’s a fact. We are driven by our own selfish interests. No matter how much we pretend to be fair and try to act selfless. It’s almost impossible to see the world through someone else’s eyes. So most people choose not to. We choose to ignore the other side. We pretend to be nice and “socially acceptable” but behind the masks we are simmering with anger and other dark emotions. There’s no such thing as fighting for equality, I call bs. Anyone worth respect is and will be treated with respect. That’s a fact. The rest is politics.  Having such kind of knowledge a sense of understanding helps you begin to look at things for what they are and not for what people sugar-coated the bullshit to be. Do we hate gays? NO. But Do we support their bullshit and sexual Perversion disguised as “human rights”? NO! 

The reason why some  people are gender confused is because they are  under a delusion, because they take pleasure in Sin rather then the Truth. Some of them have come up with their own ideal of what they think God is about and not finding out who God really is. They have made a false God that they worship. Some are just worshiping them self, it’s all about them only ( selfish) could care less about anyone else’s happiness only their own.  The God of Heaven will not allow a homosexual or transgender person in Heaven unless they hate that they are in SIN and struggling to pull themselves out of this Sin, by seeking Jesus to help them  with repentance in there heart. 2 Thessalonians  2:8 And then shall that Wicked be revealed, whom the Lord shall consume with the spirit of his mouth, and shall destroy with the brightness of his coming:  2:9 Even him, whose coming is after the working of Satan with all power and signs and lying wonders,   2:10 And with all deceivableness of unrighteousness in them that perish; because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved. 2:11 And for this cause. God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: 2:12That they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness. Deuteronomy 22:5 5 A woman must not wear men’s clothing, nor a man wear women’s clothing, for the Lord your God detests anyone who does this. 1 Corinthians  6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,effeminate = Transgender  abusers of themselves with mankind” in the King James Version (KJV): The KJV was finished 1611 CE when there was no single word in the English language that referred to homosexuals or homosexuality. The translators were forced to use this awkward phrase. The term “homosexual” was only created in the late 19th century.  “homosexuals,” (NASB); “homosexual perversion,” (NEB); “homosexual offenders,” (NIV). ef·fem·i·nate əˈfemənət/ adjective (of a man) having or showing characteristics regarded as typical of a woman; unmanly.synonyms: womanish, effete, foppish, unmanly, feminine; informalcamp, campy, flaming trans·gen·der transˈjendər,tranzˈjendər/ adjective denoting or relating to a person whose self-identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender. “a transgender activist and author” G3120 Original: μαλακόςTransliteration: malakos Phonetic: mal-ak-os’Thayer Definition: soft, soft to the touchmetaphorically in a bad sense effeminate of a catamite of a boy kept for homosexual relations with a man of a male who submits his body to unnatural lewdness of a male prostitute Origin: of uncertain affinity TDNT entry: None Part(s) of speech: AdjectiveStrong’s Definition: Of uncertain affinity; soft, that is, fine (clothing); figuratively a catamite: – effeminate, soft.

God’s Plan for the Gay Agenda
Articles (Bible Excerpt) 

Genesis 2:18-25; Genesis 19:1-28;

Leviticus 18:22; Leviticus 20:13; Isaiah 5:20; Ezekiel 16:46-50; Matthew 19:4-6;

Romans 1:24-28; 1 Corinthians 6:9-11;

Galatians 5:19-21; Ephesians 5:22-33; Jude 7-8

If you’ve been watching the headlines over the last couple years, you may have noticed the incredible surge of interest in affirming homosexuality. Whether it’s at the heart of a religious scandal, political corruption, radical legislation, or the redefinition of marriage, homosexual interests have come to characterize the world. That’s an indication of the success of the gay agenda. And some Christians,including somenational church leaders, have wavered on the issue even recently. But sadly, when people refuse to acknowledge the sinfulness of homosexuality—calling evil good and good evil (Isaiah 5:20)—they do so at the expense of many souls.

How should you respond to the success of the gay agenda?

Should you accept the recent trend toward tolerance? Or should you side with those who exclude homosexuals with hostility and disdain?

In reality, the Bible calls for a balance between what some people think are two opposing reactions—condemnation and compassion. Really, the two together are essential elements of biblical love, and that’s something the homosexual sinner desperately needs.

Homosexual advocates have been remarkably effective in selling their warped interpretations of passages in Scripture that address homosexuality. When you ask a homosexual what the Bible says about homosexuality—and many of them know—they have digested an interpretation that is not only warped, but also completely irrational. Pro-homosexual arguments from the Bible are nothing but smokescreens—as you come close, you see right through them.

God’s condemnation of homosexuality is abundantly clear—He opposes it in every age.

– In the patriarchs (Genesis 19:1-28)

– In the Law of Moses (Leviticus 18:22;

20:13)

– In the Prophets (Ezekiel 16:46-50)

– In the New Testament (Romans 1:18-27;

1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Jude 7-8)

Why does God condemn homosexuality? Because it overturns God’s fundamental design for human relationships—a design that pictures the complementary relationship between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:18-25; Matthew 19:4-6; Ephesians 5:22-33).

Why, then, have homosexual interpretations of Scripture been so successful at persuading so many?

Simple: people want to be convinced. Since the Bible is so clear about the issue, sinners have had to defy reason and embrace error to quiet their accusing consciences (Romans 2:14-16). As Jesus said, “Men loved the darkness rather than the Light, [because] their deeds were evil” (John 3:19-20).

As a Christian, you must not compromise what the Bible says about homosexuality—ever. No matter how much you desire to be compassionate to the homosexual, your first sympathies belong to the Lord and to the exaltation of His righteousness. Homosexuals stand in defiant rebellion against the will of their Creator who from the beginning “made them male and female” (Matthew 19:4).

Don’t allow yourself to be intimidated by homosexual advocates and their futile reasoning—their arguments are without substance. Homosexuals, and those who advocate that sin, are fundamentally committed to overturning the lordship of Christ in this world. But their rebellion is useless, for the Holy Spirit says, “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10; cf.

Galatians 5:19-21).

So, what is God’s response to the homosexual agenda?

Certain and final judgment. To claim anything else is to compromise the truth of God and deceive those who are perishing.

As you interact with homosexuals and their sympathizers, you must affirm the Bible’s condemnation. You are not trying to bring damnation on the head of homosexuals, you are trying to bring conviction so that they can turn from that sin and embrace the only hope of salvation for all of us sinners—and that’s through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Homosexuals need salvation. They don’t need healing—homosexuality is not a disease. They don’t need therapy—homosexuality is not a psychological condition. Homosexuals need forgiveness, because homosexuality is a sin.

I don’t know how it happened, but a few decades ago someone branded homosexuals with the worst misnomer—”gay.” Gay used to mean happy, but I can assure you, homosexuals are not happy people. They habitually seek happiness by following after destructive pleasures. There is a reason Romans 1:26 calls homosexual desire a “degrading passion.” It is a lust that destroys the physical body, ruins relationships, and brings perpetual suffering to the soul—and its ultimate end is death (Romans 7:5). Homosexuals are experiencing the judgment of God (Romans 1:24, 26, 28), and thus they are very, very sad.

First Corinthians 6 is very clear about the eternal consequence for those who practice homosexuality—but there’s good news. No matter what the sin is, whether homosexuality or anything else, God has provided forgiveness, salvation, and the hope of eternal life to those who repent and embrace the gospel. Right after identifying homosexuals as those who “will not inherit the kingdom of God,” Paul said, “Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God” (1 Corinthians 6:11).

God’s plan for many homosexuals is that they come to salvation. There were former homosexuals in the Corinthian church back in Paul’s day, just as there are many former homosexuals today in my church and in faithful churches around the country. With regenerated hearts, they sit in biblical churches throughout the country praising their Savior, along with former fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, thieves, coveters, drunkards, revilers, and swindlers. Remember, such were some of you too.

What should be your response to the homosexual agenda?

Make it a biblical response—confront it with the truth of Scripture that condemns homosexuality and promises eternal damnation for all who practice it. What should be your response to the homosexual? Make it a gospel response—confront him with the truth of Scripture that condemns him as a sinner, and point him to the hope of salvation through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. Stay faithful to the Lord as you respond to homosexuality by honoring His Word, and leave the results to Him.

I welcome all kinds of replies. Reblog, criclsize. Let the truth be spoken. 
​PS: we don’t want to be mean to gays; we want to expose them when they’re being bullies. 

32 Whore Signs (Is She Good for a Relationship?) 

Signs You Are Dating A Whore

How to identify a Slut by Bell Kariuki

By Bell Kariuki (InstagramTwitter

Most of the time, certain women indulge in prostitution out of a need for financial resources. However, in today’s world, love of authority and fame, or even the simple need to be maintained by men in return for sex, often propels women into this path voluntarily hoeizm. If you see these signs in the woman you are currently dating you need no soothsayer to tell you that she’s definitely a whore.

||| Disclaimer: this post might offend most women (and deluded men) . You might want to turn back if you’re not comfortable with the truth)

Signs to look out for :

Before writing this article, I did proper research from both my male and female friends including the older ones. These signs are more accurate than you think maybe you will learn that later in life if you haven’t interacted with lots of women already. These signs are the most likely ones to find in promiscuous women. The more the signs,  the bigger the Whore.

In my previous articles, we have already established the fact that women will do anything(including literally wear masks) to cover up for their slutty behavior and to avoid being “judged” by the society. Understand why many will frown upon reading this article. Be ware Especially of the  “Innocent Looking” girls in the hood, they hate the publicizing of such information so they can keep using sex as a weapon against you dummies.


PS: These are just signs and not evidence of any kind of behavior. These are not perfect tell tales so don’t jump into conclusion yet. Whores are not bad human beings. Just like Playas, But for real tho.  Are they worth your time? 


Pps: Be ware of hoes in denial that’s a whole different article. They are worse than  actual whores. 


Ever wondered why most celebrities are either single/bachelors/or simply into fake power relationships? Remember Jay-Z Beyonce, Diamond and “Queen”  ZARI? Here is the reason why Chris Brown doesn’t trust hoes

Signs to look out for;

1. Tattoos & Extreme Piercings

TATTOOS TATTOOS TATTOOS!

Self explanatory… 

Do we really need to discuss that?

Wow, Nice Piercings 

Piercings out of the ordinary places (anywhere else except for the normal ones on earlobes) that’s a big sign.

2. Lust for material things

She’s obsessed about money and is excessively materialistic. When her thinking is always about money, she can easily be seduced with offer of money and sometimes asks you for money after sex. She might even be running current bank accounts with an undisclosed source of income. If a young woman suddenly starts buying Louis Vuitton fashions, hanging out at expensive big city discos and taking out of state vacations, you should worry. All these things require a great deal of ready cash. Whores think about buying latest wigs, latest expensive wears, and even rides posh cars. They are so desperate in having money and opening their legs for anything so far it brings out money. They despise poverty and men who have low income.

Listen to Louis Vuitton by Fabolous x  J. Cole

3. Inability to show Affection

A whore can never display affection to her partner in public. She will always give excuses for why she can’t. Modern decent women have no problem with light petting or affectionate display in public. If she dislikes your hand on her thigh or complains about a casual brush on her ass when in public, it is a sign of emotional disconnection from you or a sign that you are below her standard and you are just a customer she’d like to be intimate with in private. If she’s already been intimate with you before, she ironically dresses sexily or she comes from a sexualized cultural background, this post-sex public self consciousness becomes an even greater red flag.

4. Always visits the gym

The gym is ripe with opportunity for women to sex. It is an atmosphere where everyone has tight, revealing clothing and everyone is there to work up a sweat. You add the testosterone that people are bound to produce through exercise and the taut, muscular bodies that inhabit the gym and you have the perfect recipe for an affair. And the trainers have an intense, personal relationship with the people that they train. Their job is to push your woman to do more than she thought she could. They are charismatic motivators and muscle bound who touch your woman regularly in all places that you dream about touching her. 

Trainers know how to talk to women because their job dictates that they build solid relationships with them. So, if your girl is always at the gym but not losing weight, then her trainer is pushing her hard, but from behind with no clothes on her body

5. Never discusses her past sexual experiences

Yolo Right? @lavisha254

First of all, women normally ask these types of questions first, so the fact that you had to ask her is your first indicator that she might be slutty. But anyway, whenever you ask her about her past, she changes the subject. When she is cornered on the subject, she blows you instead of answering you (in case you missed that, she just solved her problem with sex). Even though you asked her how many people that she slept with first, she asks you what your number is and then gives you a number that is lower than that. This means that either your girlfriend has been in the backseat of so many cars that she has lost count or she knows that 167 sex partners is a lot for anybody.

6. Speaks in favor of prostitutes & openly supports LGBT 

When she’s fond of speaking out in favor of prostitutes and admires famous women who engage in prostitution that means she is definitely one.

Her role models and sympathies often lie with the ideology and lifestyle she’s affiliated with. She doesn’t look down on women who indulge in prostitution and she sees nothing bad in it. This is usually to avoid the guilt that’s killing her inside. They also refer to it as #slutshaming

7. She smokes and drinks (Typical Party Girl) 

Smoking is a great and wonderful outlet for women to be in a very intimate one on one situation with a man with a perfect deniability of intent. People who are always drunk are usually attempting to escape their everyday lives through self-soothing. When men drink excessively, they usually go home alone. When women drink excessively, they almost never go home alone. Alcohol allows ladies to be more promiscuous and supplies an excuse for the sleaziness. Most escalations with women that happen at parties follow a similar pattern. She’s found of drinking with a guy, Smokes with a guy that will turn to intimate conversation and then to an inappropriate behavior. If you don’t smoke and she does, that’s a bad sign.

8. Late night jobs

A whore tends to have jobs working late at nights, such jobs are often refer to as “Whore creating” Such as working in a stripper’s club, bar, modeling industry or she hails from the sex industry hotspots of the world. More so if these jobs are in an environment where big men are willing to spend money to get sex, such a woman finds it easy to make side money aside from the normal income or when you show up at her job, someone always tell you that she just left. When you call her, she always calls you back after initially not answering the phone. Now, think hard. When is the last time you had sex. Believe me, if she is not doing the no-pants dance at night with you, then she is doing somebody else.

9. She has trust issues

A whore always has trust issues, even when you have proven yourself over and over again to her. She has emotional problems while forming attachments. It usually happens if she’s beginning to have feelings for you or it could be her mother has indoctrinated her against men. Her trust issues are a projection of her revulsion for men cheating on their women who’ve paid to shag her. She fears that you would do the same to her with another woman. She might want to be attached to you but memories of her customers prevent her.

10. She’s always into road-trips, Girls night out &  other  Reckless traveling escapades

She goes away for the weekend with her ‘friends’ a lot, Don’t think that females won’t cover for each other like men do. They surely will. The closer the friendship the more likely they will cover for one another. It might just be for the sole purpose of meeting men to hook up with. She travels a lot with her guy friends even she couldn’t afford it. Tells you its official or they are her distant cousins or uncles she’s traveling with.

11. Shaved or bleached Vaginal Region

Since the private part is her main source of income, your babe will always invest a great deal of time and money making it appear like an exclusive, extravagant luxury. Also be on the lookout for vaginal bleaching a new fad that is being promoted by the pornography industry.

On the other hand, your babe might not be a prostitute by deed, but by mind. If you are yet to be married and she has all these traits, you really need to think twice before tying the knot with her.
12. She always brings up the subject of sex first

The more explicitly she talks about sex before you’ve banged her, the likelier she has a storied slutty past.

She also suggests kinky sex acts

If you’ve been dating a short while and she eagerly implores you for public sex before the glow of bedroom missionary sex has worn off, you’ve got a slut.
13. Feminist / Bosslady

Feminists believe that  men and women should be equal, in short, her vagina knows more dick than your dick knows vagina.  

Where does she earn her living to afford the lavish lifestyle that most rich people can’t? 

Self-explanatory
14. She’s neurotic and disagreeable

Also known as anti-slut defense.  

Emotionally flighty girls are vaginally flighty girls. They are ruled by their vaginas. If she’s the gossipy, backstabbing, conniving sort who drips with sarcasm and generally disdains everyone around her, you can bet her black soul will seek sustenance on a carousel of cock.
15. She frequently goes commando. (Pantyless

Yeah,  as guys, we think it’s hot when we slide our hands under our girlfriends’ dresses during dinner in a fancy restaurant and discover a panty-less pussy waiting for us, but what if you notice she’s sans underwear while you’re both shopping in Naivas? At a family day out? In church? 

16. She’s got that crazy, hyper, coked-up look in her eyes.

Also known as Slut-Face

You will know it when you look into a girl’s eyes for some time, look at her and focus into her eyes.. You will see usually a mix of confusion, guilt and looking like they are  high on drugs 24/7. (Watch Nairobi Diaries, Focus on Pendo’s eyes) 

17. Gets 100+ Likes on her Social Media

Welcome to attention whore land! Chicks who can’t breathe without being the center of attention are chicks who are unable to control their craving for fresh cock. You want to be on the lookout for manic depressives and girls who can’t make it through a ten minute conversation without screeching in phony excitement.

18. She’s  “Close Friends” With Multiple  Djs/rappers/promoters/comdeians/ photographers &  upcoming celebrities

Show biz, Issa Massive Vagina-Lubricated Industry. In the world of Fame, Pussy Turns the Wheels.  Don’t ask me how they get the tickets to all the events. Wink. 


19. She shows a lot of cleavage all the time.

No worries if she’s accentuating her tits on the first date to entice you, but if she’s got those colliding death stars displayed for the world to admire every time you’re out with her,…duh 

The bigger the Cleavage the bigger the Whore. The Same rule applies to high-heels 

20. Her Role-Models are all Well known Whores

She’s following the Whores that she looks up to. Her Instagram feed is usually full of Kim Kardashian, Huddah Monroe, Vera Sidika and other celebrity whores. 

21. Her Instagram followers/following ratio is 100:1

3 Words : Attention Seeking Whore.

 
22. She *really* seems to know what she’s doing in bed.

Hey man, nothing like getting a BJ from a chick who knows how to hit the underside with her tongue, but it does make you wonder how much dick it required for her to reach that level of professionalism.
23. She has an impressive collection of vibrators and admits to masturbating to porn.

She’s a high testosterone sex fiend who values sexual novelty more than pair bonding. This type of girl is a creature of her id. High T girls are easy to spot. Check for forearm hair, narrow hips, broad shoulders, a penchant for cursing, a flat ass (adjusted for race), career ambition, and status whoring.

24. She asks you how many women you’ve slept with or accuses you of being a playa for no reason.

One word: projection.
25. She seems “hard”

If she’s got that tough, soljagurl aura about her, like she’s been through dating hell and back, and her cynicism is worse than yours, you know she’s been used like a cheap whore.


26. She’s incredibly circumspect or incredibly forthcoming about her past or sex in general

In the course of a few dates, occasionally the conversation turns to past loves or sexual experiences, or views on men and women and the dating scene. Don’t confuse this for Honesty. Normally, these exchanges are blessedly brief and act as useful springboards for other topics, but when she seems like she’s hiding something big you’ve got a right to be suspicious. Listen for tells that give the game away. Stuff like “Oh well, we all have our skeletons”. Or “I’ve learned so much growing up.” Or “Men are pigs.” (The last one usually said by a record breaking slut.) Naturally, you want to write off any girl as GF material who brags about her CRAZY and WILD college years. Believe me, those years included more than college.

27. She’s an artsy type

Or a lawyer.  The paradox of femininity is that it is often both the ultrafeminine and ultramasculine women who have racked up big numbers of men.
28. She never has a break between men longer than one week and can’t live without complaining.

If she’s the type who can’t stand to be single and monkey swings from one man to the next, sometimes with sperm-sharing overlap, odds are high she’s a slut.

29. You’re tapping her for the first time and she doesn’t remind you to put on a condom. Or she even encourages you not to use one. 

We men have an excellent fallback system for flushing out the sluts. If we think you’ve been around, we act as if we’re going to rawdog you, only to reach for the condom at the last possible second. If you haven’t reminded us to put one on during the long pre-penetration buildup, and it looks like you’d have been OK taking our unwrapped meat, we have all the evidence we need that you’re a skank.

30. She never stops shit testing you.

A girl who is constantly testing you for alpha congruency is a girl who would jump to another man the moment you betatize yourself. Worthy girls keep the shyt testing to a bare minimum. Turn on your love light, baby. (shyt tests = tests of your manhood, things that women do to put you on the defensive and cause drama)
31. She buys you a lot of gifts.

I’m not sure why this is a leading indicator of sluttiness, but in my experience it is. Especially if she showers you with little gifts early in the relationship. I open the floor to a discussion of theories for this particular observation.

32. She’s OK with making out in clubs.

Self-explanatory. 

The list is long. You might add other signs you have experienced too in the comment section. 

Common Hoe Excuses 

So if your girlfriend is an attention whore (or you think she is), then you have to do a couple of things:

Have a lot of patience. The only way you can date a girl who is an attention whore is to be a man of great patience. You have to have the utmost self-security and self-assurance. You have to know that you’re the best man in her life and that she will crave attention no matter what you do. In fact, if you try to fight her attention creating tendencies, then you will only work against yourself.

Be a strong leader. An attention whore will only stay loyal to a man who is strong enough to keep her in line . If you are not such a man, then you will walk into a world of hurt.

Be a great lover. Attention whores usually have very high sex drives. They spend time fantasizing about the best lovers . So if you can’t rock her world in the bedroom, then she is very likely to seek out someone else who she thinks can get the job done.

So if you can’t do any of these outlined things – and in some cases even if you can — the best thing to do with an attention whore is to break up with her . You will save yourself a lot of pain and frustration in the long run. And you can use all of your newfound energy to find a girl who is much more well-adjusted and loyal. This may be somewhat painful to hear or act upon, but the most beneficial things in life often are.

WRAPPING UP

Beware of the attention whore.

She brings nothing but bad news into your life.

They say that knowledge provides us with the greatest power. And now you have the power to know whether or not a girl is simply stringing you along. And if she is, then you have no choice but to cut that string. You now have no excuses (and no, her being one of the most beautiful women you have ever seen is not an excuse). You are a man. You are better than that.

And as they say: you can’t turn an attention whore into a housewife.

PS: Sluts & Whores are not bad humans. They are just not the best type for relationships.

Bell Kariuki

Learn to Respect Women. Not Whores

Why Do Women Cheat?

Why u chatting with other niggas?

Bell Kariuki reveals the truth why women cheat in relationships.

One study concluded that women tend to cheat when they are dissatisfied with their relationship as a whole and seek what is missing elsewhere

Reasons Why Women Cheat 

By Bell Kariuki 
Most of us cheat and are cheated on at some point , whether it gets revealed or not. Here’s how to spot whether your woman has a bit on the side.

Men and women tend to two-time for different reasons: research suggests that the majority of men stray in search of get-the-job-done sex, whereas women want their sizzle with a side of emotional connection. My study however concluded that women tend to cheat when they are dissatisfied with their relationship as a whole and seek what is missing elsewhere. But when it came to male cheaters, I found that 56% claimed to be “happily married.”

Is it, therefore, easier to spot when a woman is cheating simply by analysing her behaviour in your own relationship? Here are the types to watch out for:

1. The centre of the universe


Some women will go in a relationship with the expectation that you are equipped and willing to meet her every whim. Maybe she’ll set you up to fail, maybe she’s just pushing her luck, maybe she pins all her hopes and dreams on one person and feels justified in taking her wild expectations elsewhere when you inevitably fail to meet her demands.

2. The virgin/whore

Perhaps she hasn’t even asked you for what she really wants because she’s worried about what you’ll think, or because she struggles to see you as the father of her kids and the guy who gets super dirty with her. Her primary partner cannot or will not satisfy her, so she goes somewhere else.

3. The endorphin junkie


This chronic honeymooner craves the emotional excitement that comes with discovering, desiring, and seducing a new partner.

4. The fragile ego

Women with a fickle sense of self-esteem can seek evidence of their worth in the romantic advances of other men, rather than gleaning validation in a meaningful way in their existing relationship. “Players” often lack self-esteem; the constant need to feel desired by another person reveals they are probably not very secure in themselves and instead place inflated value on the attention of the opposite sex.

5. The “good guy”

They want to break up but are too scared to be the bad guy, bite the bullet and dump you. Or maybe they are scared of being alone and want to audition your replacement beforehand.

“IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT”


But seriously, at some point you’ll be ready to answer the question: what part did I play in it? Ninety per cent of people who cheat believe that they are justified in doing so. Are you stingy with emotional support? She may feel abandoned and isolated. Remember, intimacy is not just about sex, it’s about non-physical connections, commitment and mutual emotional investment. Have you committed a betrayal that remains unresolved? She may seek revenge. Are you equal partners or does she feel exploited emotionally or practically? With our relationship “roles” becoming evermore flexible and fragmented, are you on the same page about what each of you expects from the other?

How do you know if she is cheating?

(besides the strange rash)?

No relationship is perfect. If you still want to be together, try to work it out when things inevitably get difficult

Is she truly being distant, or have past experiences caused you to jump to the conclusion that people will inevitably hurt you? If she has cheated before, she may think it’s OK to do again, and it would be naive to ignore past examples of a two-timing character. There are some pretty impressive surveillance techniques and body-language give-aways, but that’s another article altogether so for now I’ll suggest the obvious: ask the question. Bear in mind that if you even have to ask, trust has somehow already been eroded and this issue, whatever it turns out to be, needs confronting.


Now, you’ve discovered she has been unfaithful – do you want to take her back?


No relationship is perfect. What makes it pretty damn close to perfect, though, is if you still want to be together and try to work it out when things inevitably get difficult. In order to repair the relationship, you need to truly understand and be prepared to analyse why she did it. Taking someone back doesn’t necessarily make you a fool; it takes a lot of strength, patience and self-assurance to see beyond that betrayal. Want to know whether you are a doormat? Ask yourself whether you believe this was just a one-time mistake, or just the first time she makes it.